By Rep. Jeff Helfrich
The Mountain Times
Over the course of my career in public service, I have had many roles. From active military law enforcement to elected official, and most recently as the leader of my caucus in the Oregon House of Representatives. Of all these titles, the one I cherish the most is “Dad.” My favorite role is being a father to my two wonderful kids. Fatherhood has filled me with a joy and a sense of duty that few other responsibilities ever have. With Father’s Day upon us, it’s the perfect time to reflect on the invaluable role fathers play in our lives and the profound impact they have on our society.
Fatherhood is more than just a biological relationship; it is a bond of love, guidance, and support. Fathers are providers, protectors, and role models, instilling values and discipline that help shape the character of future generations. Their presence and involvement encourage children to strive for success and become responsible contributing members of society. Fathers are crucial in shaping the future of our youth and, by extension, the future of our nation.
Research consistently highlights the positive impact that engaged fathers have on their children. Children with involved fathers are more likely to excel academically, exhibit healthy self-esteem, and develop strong social skills. They are also less likely to engage in risky behaviors and more likely to grow into responsible, well-adjusted adults. Involved fathers contribute to safer neighborhoods, boost local schools, and participate in community activities, fostering a sense of cohesion and mutual support. Their presence and participation help build a robust social fabric that benefits everyone.
Recognizing the importance of fathers, we must also acknowledge the challenges they face. Many fathers grapple with balancing work and family life, often under societal pressures that still prioritize the role of breadwinner over that of caregiver. As a legislator, I am proud to advocate for policies that support fathers in their dual roles. From parental leave policies that allow fathers to spend crucial bonding time with their newborns to championing workplace flexibility to accommodate family needs, and providing resources for fathers to engage in parenting education and support networks.
As we celebrate Father’s Day this month, let’s take a moment to express our gratitude to all fathers who have shaped our lives. Whether biological, adoptive, foster, or simply a fatherly figure, let’s say thank you for the unwavering support and guidance they have offered throughout the years. To my fellow fathers, I want to extend my heartfelt wishes for a very Happy Father’s Day.
As always, you can reach me at Rep.JeffHelfrich@oregonlegislature.gov or 503-986-1452. My office and I would love to hear from you..